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I've never been in such a situation myself, but one of my friends is seventeen and her boyfriend is twenty-three. They've been together for three years. I guess it just depends on certain couples.
However, I agree with the person who said that it'd be better to wait it out. See how things go for now friendship wise, but if things become too awkward, end contact as soon as possible.

I'm fifteen (turning sixteen in december) dating a nineteen year old. Guess most of the people up there don't agree but we've been dating for nearly 3 months and it's going well so far.

Bad idea to talk to her romantically! Very bad! I have known many girls who were underage to claim rape because they kept hitting on an older guy who wouldn't do anything with them until they were "of age"! Believe me, NOT a mess you want to be involved in... There are way too many circumstances that could get involved to make you the bad guy... Sorry =0(

Thanks a lot guys <3

Thanks a lot guys <3

Stay in touch with her if friends-only is comfortable and if she doesn't seem like she wants more. If not, abort.

jet: They tease me about it, but they haven't said yeah or no on the situation.
oboeish: thanks.

but now is down I just completely cut it off? I tried explaining she was young but it seem as if she isn't getting it.

Def a no. Bad idea.

I really hope everything works out for you. I had a friend who did this. He tried dating a 15 year old while he was 18. Did. Not. Work. haha She looked really old too. I mean...I suppose there's ALWAYS an exception. But...if it's meant to be, it seems that you guys can meet up later in life. But as for now? I just can't see it working very well. What do your friends say?

It isn't all ages. Just wednesdays they don't card anyone unless you're drinking.

But you had good points especially b lol.
thanks for your help <3

End it, man. Straight up. I know that's probably not what you wanna hear, but there's so many reasons. A: Illegal. B: She may be more mature looking, and trust me, I've been there myself (I never did anything, but was seriously bewildered at how someone so young could look so old), but I guarantee you, there's just absolutely no way the two of you can have that much in common. You're old enough to vote; right now she's probably learning the different branches of government. C: What kinda clubs do 14 year olds hang out at? <----that last one is just for my own curiosity. I know a few people that go to 18 and up clubs, but I've never heard of an all ages one?

Good luck and I hope you recover! I've never had hives before but they don't sound pleasant.

If you feel that you'd rather go by a nickname, I say go for it. I don't even let teachers call me by my real name anymore.
Hell, even my little sister is going to legally change her name.
I personally feel that 'Jessica' is too feminine and it's just not me. Jess is much better.

Go for it!

Thanks guys. She completly stopped texting altogether and actually is talking or whatever to someone else now :/ which made it sting a bit more

coming from someone who just went through this, i would ignore it and move on. eventually his texts will get further and further spread apart, then you'll feel confused and neglected. then he'll get defensive. and it will fall apart. if he doesn't make time to talk on the phone, or actually see you in person, then you're not high on his priority list, and you're just setting yourself up to be hurt.

If your smiling uncontrollably it obviously means you want something but that always comes with the risk of getting hurt. Ah, love.

Seriously, that's shitty I'm so sorry. Don't surround yourself with people who care nothing for your feelings

Some people just plain suck. =/

I'm sorry to hear that both of you
our fliers still get ripped down :/

thanks though, but I'm cutting it too close I think something won't be up to par.