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help would greatly be apprciated. greatly.

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alyssanothing.
, 07-16-10 at 12:31 AM (1185 Views)
I am 18.
I went to the club and met a girl. She's cute, funny and very chill. And very much 14. She turns 15 in three days. SHE DOESN'T LOOK 14 AT ALL.
I like her so far, but I haven't even tried getting anywhere near close for the fact she is 15. She says ages doesn't matter and for the most part is doesn't.
But she's 15 and year and few months older than my little brother.
So the question, is what do I do? Do I just end it? Or keep talking to her?
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  1. jetblacknewyear's Avatar
    End it, man. Straight up. I know that's probably not what you wanna hear, but there's so many reasons. A: Illegal. B: She may be more mature looking, and trust me, I've been there myself (I never did anything, but was seriously bewildered at how someone so young could look so old), but I guarantee you, there's just absolutely no way the two of you can have that much in common. You're old enough to vote; right now she's probably learning the different branches of government. C: What kinda clubs do 14 year olds hang out at? <----that last one is just for my own curiosity. I know a few people that go to 18 and up clubs, but I've never heard of an all ages one?
  2. alyssanothing.'s Avatar
    It isn't all ages. Just wednesdays they don't card anyone unless you're drinking.

    But you had good points especially b lol.
    thanks for your help <3
  3. jetblacknewyear's Avatar
    I really hope everything works out for you. I had a friend who did this. He tried dating a 15 year old while he was 18. Did. Not. Work. haha She looked really old too. I mean...I suppose there's ALWAYS an exception. But...if it's meant to be, it seems that you guys can meet up later in life. But as for now? I just can't see it working very well. What do your friends say?
  4. Oboeish's Avatar
    Def a no. Bad idea.
  5. alyssanothing.'s Avatar
    jet: They tease me about it, but they haven't said yeah or no on the situation.
    oboeish: thanks.

    but now is down I just completely cut it off? I tried explaining she was young but it seem as if she isn't getting it.
  6. Nicky's Avatar
    Stay in touch with her if friends-only is comfortable and if she doesn't seem like she wants more. If not, abort.
  7. alyssanothing.'s Avatar
    Thanks a lot guys <3
  8. alyssanothing.'s Avatar
    Thanks a lot guys <3
  9. samanthalee's Avatar
    Bad idea to talk to her romantically! Very bad! I have known many girls who were underage to claim rape because they kept hitting on an older guy who wouldn't do anything with them until they were "of age"! Believe me, NOT a mess you want to be involved in... There are way too many circumstances that could get involved to make you the bad guy... Sorry =0(
  10. Winny!'s Avatar
    I'm fifteen (turning sixteen in december) dating a nineteen year old. Guess most of the people up there don't agree but we've been dating for nearly 3 months and it's going well so far.
  11. Writer at Heart's Avatar
    I've never been in such a situation myself, but one of my friends is seventeen and her boyfriend is twenty-three. They've been together for three years. I guess it just depends on certain couples.
    However, I agree with the person who said that it'd be better to wait it out. See how things go for now friendship wise, but if things become too awkward, end contact as soon as possible.