living with a bunch of dudes.
by, 12-04-11 at 11:22 AM (1683 Views)
what was i thinking? oh yea, that i could actually walk to class again. i've lived in a hotel 4 miles off campus since last august for school, and over thanksgiving break we were offered one of the best apartments on campus. it was very exciting until i realized i was going to have to live with this extremely annoying guy that lived down the hall from us. i figured i would be able to deal with it though because living on campus > living 4 miles off campus. i was wrong.
unfortunately, we would probably not have gotten this housing if he didnt work for maintenance which works for housing. he has annoyed me endlessly since we met him the first day we moved in. he is one of those guys that tells stories about himself every 2 seconds and brags about his hobbies and all that stupid stuff. he doesnt get the hint to leave people alone either. my bf and i would be cuddling in bed, our friend would be talking to his gf or doing work, and he would just sit in the room awkwardly doing absolutely nothing. he also brings up really awkward stories about girls he has been with out of NOWHERE and its creepy as hell. he isnt the best looking dude in the world, and he gives off a really awkward, creepy vibe. so hearing a creepy guy talk about girls he has "been" with? yea....ew.
but now i get to live with him! its only been a week, and the first few days weren't too bad...but now he is getting on my nerves again. he thinks he knows EVERYTHING. no one likes a know it all. and i cant play anything in peace! i'll be playing skyward sword and he will just stand outside my door and watch me play and try to tell me what i should do.
I DESPISE BACKSEAT GAMERS.
or hey, we will all be playing our respective games, and he will stand outside a door and stare, then move on to the next room. someone cant take a hint that we want to just be by ourselves.
what really cheesed me off? it happened this morning. my mom bought lil measuring cups for me for the apartment. i went to make pancakes this morning and one of them was broken, and dirty. earth to people: OIL IS NOT WATER. YOU NEED TO WASH SOMETHING AFTER PUTTING OIL IN IT. whoever the culprit was, they are a dumbass.
some background: i live in an apartment with my boyfriend, our friend, and annoying guy. our friend does not cook. my boyfriend said he didnt use them, and i didnt use them. which means annoying guy did it. F*CKING F*CKER. i dont understand why it is so hard to i dunno, let me know that you broke something that is mine? or hmmm maybe clean up after yourself? which is also a huge problem. my bf and i are the only people that clean up after ourselves. its ridiculous.
when no one else does their part to keep the apartment clean i get angry and bitchy. i dont want to be that person, but im being forced to be. no one takes out the garbage, they leave plates everywhere. its annoying!
i know in the back of my mind, that all of this was to be expected. its my first time ever living in an apartment. its new to me. but living with 3 guys isnt going to make for a clean apartment. i dunno :\ i dont have any female friends here because im terrible at making friends. i wish i wasnt though because i wouldnt be this annoyed.
right now, they are being obnoxiously loud playing magic in the living room while im trying to listen to the bills game on my laptop. annoying guy is very loud. very unnecessarily loud. people upstairs and through the entire building could probably hear him.
and something creepy? its like annoying guy is trying to battle against me for their attention? or he needs to be in control of everything. he made cornbread this morning. i came into the kitchen and i was like "ima make pancakes" and our friend was like "oh, [annoying guy] made cornbread." and i was all, "i dont like cornbread." and annoying guy, from his room, said, "well i wouldve made pancakes but i didnt have anything to make them with." and our friend was all, "megan does." and i was all in my head...*i can cook for myself dude. everyone in this apartment can fend for themselves. calm down*
this is where i would hear "cool story, bro." i know its stupid, but you had to be there. he feels like he needs to be the cook in the apartment. before we even had the chance to move on campus he was like, "i call dibs on the oven." .......ITS AN OVEN. HOW CAN YOU CALL DIBS ON AN OVEN?! its something that everyone should be able to use.
also, he will make fun of me in a douchey way. he said i "whip" my boyfriend when he barely knew us at the time, and i was playing a game and said i was a terrible shot. 10 minutes later he was like "i agree with you" and i was like ....huh? he said, "you are a terrible shot [stupid obnoxious laughter]." look. i can make fun of my shooting skills, ok? YOU, SIR, CANNOT. i feel bad for these "girls" that may or may not have actually dated him because hes an ass.
he creeps me out and makes me feel uncomfortable. i am going to have to live with this guy until he graduates or until i get a co-op and will have to find different housing. i might sound really whiny, but i have enough shit to deal with in my life, and his crap is something i do not need to tolerate.
i think the thing that really bothered me was that he walked into my room, stared at a picture of my sister and said "oh, she looks like someone i know." GOOD FOR YOU. i dont like you, so dont ever say anything about your stupid life and my sister in the same sentence. he and another one of my friends looked at a thing i have hanging up which has her prayer card on it, so he knew she wasnt alive anymore. but comparing her to someone you know? thats an insult. if you arent going to be nice to me, then i wont be nice to you. simple as that.