In the imperfect world of TY
by, 04-13-08 at 06:31 AM (742 Views)
The following blog was originally posted on my MySpace blog on Jun. 1st 2007
ok yet another blog based on another discussion me & mom had. My mom is very traditional & she believes that a girl should be a virgin before marriage. She also thinks that marriage is some kind of guarantee.
I disagree with her. I think virginity shouldn't matter. If a guy truly loves you as a person then why would virginity be an issue. My mom thinks it's wrong to move in with a guy before marriage. I think it's necessary. Moving in it's a second test in a relationship. So the guy has passed the dating part, doesn't mean that we would get along living under the same roof. And it's also the time to make decisions as a couple. That is a crucial element if you're thinking about the futur & the possibility of building a family with another person.
Sex should be about 2 people sharing an intimate moment, loving & feeling. My mom made an analogy with a package of a product. She said ok if you see a certain product's package being openned, no one would buy it. She thinks it's the same with virginity, if you're not a virgin anymore, it'll be hard to find yourself another guy. WTF is this analogy? I don't think women should be reduce to a thing & virginity as a package. I think it's wrong.