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Virginity

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MsPerfectionist
, 04-13-08 at 06:31 AM (742 Views)
The following blog was originally posted on my MySpace blog on Jun. 1st 2007

ok yet another blog based on another discussion me & mom had. My mom is very traditional & she believes that a girl should be a virgin before marriage. She also thinks that marriage is some kind of guarantee.

I disagree with her. I think virginity shouldn't matter. If a guy truly loves you as a person then why would virginity be an issue. My mom thinks it's wrong to move in with a guy before marriage. I think it's necessary. Moving in it's a second test in a relationship. So the guy has passed the dating part, doesn't mean that we would get along living under the same roof. And it's also the time to make decisions as a couple. That is a crucial element if you're thinking about the futur & the possibility of building a family with another person.

Sex should be about 2 people sharing an intimate moment, loving & feeling. My mom made an analogy with a package of a product. She said ok if you see a certain product's package being openned, no one would buy it. She thinks it's the same with virginity, if you're not a virgin anymore, it'll be hard to find yourself another guy. WTF is this analogy? I don't think women should be reduce to a thing & virginity as a package. I think it's wrong.
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  1. YesImTHEJackyJoy's Avatar
    i see what you mean.. my mom is the same way.. is your mom religious? becuase my mom is and that is her reasoning of why i should wait.. ive made the decision personally to wait a while, because well, im 15, i dont feel ready for sex, and ive never really had a moment come up that was like, "wow this guy is really specail.." i think that, the speacail thing is a big factor in it.. i have always wanted my first time that i look back on with no regret..
    so yea..
    im done chattering now..
    but i feel for yah!!
  2. MsPerfectionist's Avatar
    yeah my mom is christian.

    i'm 23 & i think i'm ready. i might have found this special connection with one guy but sadly he's too far away. so nothing happened.
  3. veggiebasket's Avatar
    My parents are all for the "WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED" but they aren't christian or anything. They think I'm a virgin still.

    Whoops.
  4. Eiah's Avatar
    I don't agree or disagree with the whole sex before marriage thing, i think people have their own reasons for doing either, and as long as you don't regret the decision you made later in life then i think that's fine! As for living with someone before marriage, i really think it's a GOOD idea -trust me i'm speaking from experience, you never ever REALLY know somebody until you've lived with them!