Wendy

So those of you that i have been talking to are well aware that i am currently residing in Kenya,which was extremly exciting when i came here a year and a half ago.The last time i was in Kenya was '02 so i was ready for a fresh start this time around.
Unfortunately,what i hadn't counted on was the fact that my friends had turned into socialites and media/entertainment epersonalities...which means i got thrust into the limelight unwillingly.

One of my pals participated in the African version of Big Brother...we were all aware that she was bi going in.Before going into the house she was getting over her ex who is a good pal of mine..while in the house she fell for some guy #showmance...and now that she is out,she's started chasing after me.While i would love to say this has come out of no where..its impossible to lie..i knew she had feeings for me earlier as did some of our friends..I also like her,but just as friends.I have tried to be frank and reason with her about the impossibilities of anything between us .....but all she says is that she is willing to wait for me.

She's getting possessive,clingy,wont let anyone hold my attention even if its a simple conversation,keeps referring to me as her girlfriend..

What can i do to diffuse this situation coz i am honestly out of ideas....